A good thing
For the past couple of weeks, I’ve been away from writing on the blog. Then as I search myself to find out what to write about, I realized the only topic that I’ve been having conversations about has been women and relationships.
This is a part of life that gets everyone anxious. Who is the right one for me? Am I ready? When will I get married? Especially in ladies, we get ourselves rapped up and worried with these issues. As a woman myself, I deal with these thoughts. And I realize that I can either worry about it which changes nothing or I can actually do something about. And its definitely not what you are thinking.
You see as I talk to people, especially single people. I realize they try to build their own relationship based on other peoples experience and think that would be theirs, or they read lots of books on how to treat a man or how to find the right guy. They eventually begin pulling out there hair when they see that all them tricks and games don’t work. Don’t get me wrong, books on relationships are good, but you have to know that they are there to counsel you and not find you a good man (a book cannot give you your heart desires).
Also, we say we want something, but are we ready for that which we want. We want a good man, but are we ourselves a good woman that a good man deserves. I say to myself, I want a man that will be comfortable with me in my sweats driving to the store or just going out. Then on a normal day, I’m decked up in my heels, hair tight and outfit just right. Then one day I stopped and thought to myself how funny it is that I want a guy that is ok with sweats but I never wear them, I want a guy who likes his girl in sweats but I don’t look like I own a pair. My point here is just that if you want something, you have to be prepared for it.
Ladies, the word say “he that finds a good wife finds a good thing”. It does not say He that makes a woman good. Which means start preparing yourselves to be good wives; we are naturally created to become wives someday. Search yourself and start being a treasure that will be found.
And what is it that I do about it? I trust in Him who has told me it’s going to be just fine.
xoxoxoxo
He/she aint my type
Relationships (yikes), most people want them but majority cannot handle them. this is probably one of the hardest aspects of life and very important though. this is for the single people out there who cant get a date or hold a reltionship . i’m not going to tell you to go out more or change your style, the thing you need to change is ( hmmm!!! cant find a word to use), but the way you think. what if you are not your type’s type, (i hope that makes sense) you will be single for a loooooooong time. and the best thing is if you are praying for someone to come your way, God won’t send that person till you are able to handle a relationship. so the sooner you realize that the sooner you will get that type that is meant for you. don’t lower your expectation, but delete your expectation and know that he is God…
xoxo
